etiquette

The best way to schedule a date with us is by filling out our booking form or emailing one of us directly. Please refer to the Contact page for the information required in your email.
We recommend reaching out at least 2 days in advance — the earlier the better — and suggesting a few possible dates so we can find a time that works for us.

We are based in different cities — Hong Kong and Shanghai — so most of the time the best way to meet us is to fly us to you.
We adore traveling and are always happy to receive an invitation we can’t refuse. Our website and social media will share updates on our latest travel schedule. We are available for outcall only, by default to 5-star hotels.

A deposit of approximately 20–50% of the total booking is required to confirm our time together. Accepted deposit methods will be discussed, and crypto is welcomed. Deposits are non-refundable. In the event of a cancellation with sufficient notice, the deposit may be applied toward a future date. Any attempt at negotiation will be an immediate ground for blocking.

For our safety and peace of mind, screening is required for all new acquaintances, with no exceptions. To proceed, please provide one of the following forms of screening:
Employment Information — A link to your LinkedIn profile along with a screenshot of your logged-in profile
Personal ID — A selfie holding your ID or passport
All information provided is handled with absolute discretion and will never be shared.

Unless we’ve agreed on a digital method in advance, please have the remaining consideration ready in an unsealed envelope at the start of our date, or placed discreetly in plain sight (for example, by the bathroom sink). We’ll step away briefly to collect it after arriving. If we’re meeting in public, feel free to be creative — a book or gift bag works perfectly for discretion.

I understand that plans can change. If you need to cancel, please notify me as early as possible.
48+ hours’ notice — Your deposit may be applied to a future date within 30 days
Less than 48 hours’ notice — 50% of the total fee is required
Less than 24 hours’ notice — The full fee is required
If we need to cancel, your deposit may either be refunded or applied to a future date of your choosing.

Please note that not all requests can be accommodated. This depends entirely on hygiene, safety, and mutual comfort. We take our health seriously and expect the same consideration in return.
Our boundaries are not negotiable. Any repeated pressure, disregard for consent, or unlawful requests will result in the immediate end of our time together, with no refunds.

If you’re running late, please let us know as soon as possible with an updated ETA.
Delays of up to 10 minutes will not affect our time
Delays of 10 minutes or more will still end at the originally agreed time, with the full rate applying
If we are running late, our time together will begin once we meet.

For discretion, our faces are intentionally blurred in all shared images, and identifying features such as moles are also obscured. We do not provide unblurred photos.
Photography and filming are strictly prohibited.
We do not participate in any activity that requires the disclosure of our legal names, nor do we register them anywhere.